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Late February 2015 Newsletter

Hello, and a lovely late February to you!
Welcome, or welcome back, to my newsletter. The photo of me above amuses me, since I'm "out there" speaking to a group, and also hidden in the shadows where I am usually more comfortable. It seemed a good fit for this time of year when we're shifting from the northern Winter dark to the light of Spring, while appreciating both.

Today's issue has 2 articles, the first on vision, and our 2 eyes seeing differently. The second is about EFT and an occasional fleeting reaction that doesn't feel good. Enjoy!

Vision: What if my 2 eyes see differently?
 cat with a blue eye and a green eye Ideally, healthy clear eyesight consists of both eyes seeing well, and working together to produce stereoscopic vision. (To learn more about 3D vision, see this article.) What if you notice that one of your eyes sees a little more blurry than the other? You can experiment with letting that eye lead for a change, depending on it for one-eyed tasks like looking into a narrow bottle.

Most people do have a dominant eye, and you don't want to rely on it so much the other eye thinks you don't need it! If you see you're overly favoring one eye, you can try patching it for simple safe activities. Eye patches can be bought for a dollar or less in most drugstores. You may be surprised how it feels to have the more subservient eye do most of your looking. Is the eye overwhelmed and not sure it's up to the task? This is all good information for you and will help you decide how to proceed.
Over the years a few people have told me they use one eye for near vision and the other for distance vision, sometimes proud of themselves for coming up with a clever solution to seeing well at any distance. This is not how the human visual system was intended to work! If you only use one eye to see and suppress the vision from the other, you lose your 3D vision entirely. Also, the vision in the middle distances will be tricky for you, as you switch from one eye to the other. Have the goal of both eyes participating in your seeing, whatever the distance.

For an energetic perspective on the vision in your 2 eyes not being the same, see this article.

If you're interested in exploring and improving your own looking habits, consider a Vision Coaching session. I'd love to work with you.

EFT: Can a tapping session cause physical pain?
 woman with headache Late last year I wrote about common reactions to EFT, like yawning, in the lead article of this newsletter. As stuck energy starts moving through the body, it can cause embarrassing reactions -- you may burp or make digestive noises. Yet even though some discomfort came up briefly during the tapping, greater calm and a more peaceful feeling can be expected as the energy settles.

Sometimes when tapping on a physical pain, the location will move, or the intensity can briefly increase. It's as if the system is re-calibrating. Or a new physical pain could show up temporarily. I worked with a woman who badly wanted to achieve something. As we tapped on "I really want it!" and "I can see myself having it!", we didn't make much progress. In questioning her, I found that a big part of her didn't believe it was possible! Well, of course EFT "won't work" in this case -- she was not aligned with the goal she wanted.

We tapped on "This isn't possible for me!", then "Yes, it is. I want it so much!", then "I've never had it before, so why should now be any different?". She told me after this round that she had gotten a headache at the beginning of our tapping! I could just see the conflict playing out in her brain, the opposing ideas sparring with each other. The body is so literal! She reported later that she felt much lighter. She hadn't realized how strong her limiting belief was.

Your body wants to help you be as healthy and happy as possible. One way it communicates with you is by producing tension or ease to let you know what's going on with it. EFT can play a big part in relieving strain and blockages, to help your mind and emotions and body be more in agreement, more of a unified team.

If you're unfamiliar with EFT, you'll find a brief overview here, so you can learn more about it.

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Let me know what you've wondered about concerning vision or dreams or EFT. I'll be glad to write a short article addressing that topic. Thank you to those who have sent me questions, or see a question you asked me in a private session written about here. You're helping many other people! Enjoy these last couple of weeks of February. I'll write again in a week or so. Take care!

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