Late October 2014 Dreamer Sight Newsletter
Hello, and a lovely late October to you!
Welcome, or welcome back, to my newsletter.
The photo above is from a workshop where I'm laughing with a
friend on a break. No, that bird is not perched on my
shoulder -- he is a statue on the railing behind me. When is the
last time you laughed out loud? Laughter is the best
medicine, and it's fun!
Today's issue has 2 articles, one about asking for dream guidance,
and one about EFT and releasing old hurts which may still be with
Once when my partner was out of town on business, I asked for a dream
of us since I missed him. I dreamed of us pushing a car up a hill!
Sometimes the hill flattened out, then got steep again, so maybe
this was something about our relationship challenges. I did get
my request answered -- I just should have been more specific!
Dreams: Asking for a dream
Even people who don't pay much attention to their dreams have
a vague sense that dreams are more than random brain
static. Might there be actual helpful information coming
through overnight? I believe there is indeed!
It's less well understood that we can program this guidance,
that is, ask for a dream to help us with something specific.
I've heard many anecdotes over the years about a person
going to sleep with a problem on his or her mind, then waking
with a solution.
One last point: be open-ended with your dream question. Asking about
something you don't really want to know, or expecting a yes or
no answer, is less productive than "I'd like a clearer understanding
of Situation X". Then have fun decoding the answer you get!
To read about what I received after a request for a dream about vision,
Perhaps a scene from childhood will pop into
your mind of your mother giving your favorite toy to your
baby sister -- how unfair! Or you think of an elementary
school teacher who embarrassed you, making all the other
kids laugh. These incidents are ideal "tapping targets"
for EFT, to remove the strong emotional charge so you're
no longer tripped up by this same string in your present.
EFT: Might that old wound still be hurting you now?
An unexpected strong reaction to a situation can be a tug
on a string which has its other end deep in your past. EFT
excels at unearthing these old hurts so you can soothe them,
using the adult skills you didn't have back then.
If you're nervous or resentful or feeling worthless way out
of proportion to the event in front of you, my EFT teacher
might ask, "When was the first time you remember feeling
In a recent session with my own coach, we worked on my feeling
that "everyone else" (all-or-nothing thinking is a big clue
that I'm not being rational!) gets help, while I have to do
things on my own. We unearthed several cases where I was
told to "set a good example" for my younger sisters, when I
hardly knew what to do myself!
Yes, tapping removed the charge on this for me, and it could
do the same for you.
If you're unfamiliar with EFT, you'll find a brief description
so you can learn a little more about it.
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Enjoy the remainder of this abundant month of October.
I'll write again in a week or so. Take care!